It is important to remember that almost everyone who earns a Black Belt at some point during his or her training considers quitting. It is normal to have peaks and valleys in our training, especially since Martial Arts are a year round activity whereas most other activities are seasonal.

We sometimes hear that it is challenging for parents to get their children to class. As long as the student still has fun while they are here, then there is not too much to be concerned about. We find that children often have trouble switching gears from one activity to the next, but as long as karate is still enjoyable for them, then a little difficulty getting them to class now and then is not a major issue.

However, if a student complains excessively about coming to class, or says they don’t enjoy coming anymore, then you should tell their instructor immediately so that we can find out what needs to be done to re-motivate that student. We find that students may lose motivation simply because they have other activities (playing with friends or a favourite TV show) at the same time as karate class. Sometimes students just lose sight of their goals and need to re-affirm them.

During periods of low motivation it is helpful to know that no one who has earned a Black Belt has regretted it, and that:

“a Black Belt is a White Belt who never gave up!”

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Can the instructor help my child with a challenge
at home or school?

The real job satisfaction here at KickFit Martial Arts Schools is helping individuals to grow and develop. If a student needs some extra input, advice, mentoring, guidance, or just a little extra help, please talk to the student’s instructor.

For example, if a student is getting poor grades in school, is not respectful of others, or is not doing chores, our instructors would be happy to have a “Mat Chat” (talk with the student privately) to help the student find more empowering alternatives to their behaviour or performance.

Please understand that one of our main goals is to help our students become responsible and respectful people of integrity.

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